30 Days of Spring Cleaning–Another Week

Image Courtesy Gina Marie Huff

I’m sorry to say that the state of my “purging” is a bit blah.  The thing is, and I’m being completely redundant, I can’t see to open them.  The tubs.  The ones with the baby clothes.  Actually, that’s not entirely true.  I did pop one lid open, spied a small brown cap and matching shoes that Quint wore right around 12 months, and I blubbered up like a fool. 

and….I sound like a lunatic.

Meanwhile, there’s this whole other issue that keeps cropping up.  And I don’t know why it’s so hard.  But frankly, we’re not sure we’re done expanding our family.  Every time I think about getting rid of all these things – stroller, highchair, clothes, etc. – I just get hung up.  What if we’re not done?  What if we start this whole thing over again in a year?  How mad will I be at myself when I’ve gone and dumped it all, only to need to purchase it all again.  That will HACK me off.  And I know you’re probably still thinking “expanding our family”?!?!?! But stay with me.  The thing is…we often discuss whether or not we want more children.  And honestly, we do.  I mean, I think we do.  We both having the desire off and on again.  Does that ever get better?  Do you eventually have to pull the plug and say “we’re done!” and then it hurts but you get over it?  Does that happen all my “been there done that’s”?

There are just so many obstacles ( I know, I know…God is bigger than those obstacles) but I get discouraged that China has basically gone to special needs only (which is fine, only we have crap insurance) and Ethiopia jumped onto the slower than slow track.  Our agency stopped accepting families into the program – that’s pretty darn slow.  Now, am I closed to the idea of another country or stateside?  No.  Not at all.  But we haven’t pursued that and….why am I telling you all this?  Maybe it’s cathartic.  Maybe it’s a good excuse not to be unpacking tubs.  Maybe I’m just trying to justify hauling 9 tubs of the cutest clothes ever back into the attic?  Whatever it is…I feel stuck.  Ugh…  It would be a huge waste to have them sitting in the attic for years where no one can be cute in them…what’s the point of that.  What a selfish waste!

On another note, AB is kicking off his production of Footloose this week and it’s a CRAZY life, people.  Crazy!  Production mode can bring out the best and the worst in us…mostly because of all the stress and pressure.  But good news!  This coming weekend I’m attending a Ladies Retreat wherein, I will be the roommate of me, myself, and I at a luxury hotel.  Yes, that’s right…I’m rewarding myself with a private room.  This is because somehow the sound of silence makes me deliriously happy and I need a fix.  That and the whole “going to the bathroom uninterrupted".  That’s nice too.  Like, really nice.  Not to mention that I get to hang out with some of my favorite people – the ladies from my church.  They are a FUN group of gals and I’m so glad to know them.

On yet another note?  Always late to the party in all ways – hairstyles, movies, weather reports, celeb news, etc.  No exception is my new found guilty musical pleasure, Justin Bieber:

Don’t judge.  (but I would have judged you a week ago - gulp)

 For four years I have wondered what was the big D-E-A-L-I-O with him? (now I get it!)

Watch his movie on Netflix and you’ll have a change of heart.  (watched it sort of by accident, but so glad I did)

The kid is freaking amazing…who knew?  (he plays like 500 instruments…or whatever)

Quint and I have Bieber Fever…can’t be helped! (cannot be helped, I tell you!)

Ok, back to the tubs...at least I'll have Justin on the i-POD to keep me motivated!

30 Days of Spring Cleaning–Tubs, Tubs, everywhere tubs…

So my entryway looks like “Attack of the Tubs” and there’s no end in sight, because frankly I can’t bear the thought of purging a single thing from inside any of them.  Baby clothes…x9 tubs.  What?  Is that so wrong? 

I know, I know...you can't take it with you!  But you could give it to a younger sibling.  Ahem.

Moving on!

Have a great post brewing about our boy…and in case you forgot what they look like since I’m so bad at posting…here’s deliciousness…melt my stinkin’ heart already!  Look at those faces – all three of them!



Meanwhile?  Check out these two gals who are Spring Cleaning away this month and taking it one day at a time, just like yours truly.  Hey, this project isn’t for the faint of heart…gotta give it up for anyone crazy enough to do it with us!

Anna @ My Debt Free Road

Lynda @ Life is a Journey

If you’re blogging about it, let me know!  I’d love to link over to you so others can follow along!

Is it Friday?

30 Days of Spring Cleaning–Easter Weekend

Well, our three day weekend went far too fast, but overall it was a lovely Easter and I’m hoping that yours was too. 

First: a challenge update.  Sooooo, remember when I said we were going to be cleaning out the attic and garage?  Yeah.  Turns out that project is not nearly as rewarding as an afternoon nap.  HOWEVER…that did NOT keep us from tackling it, just the same.  And in a sense, we basically did Zone 1 of the attic.  We pulled down an entire section and then some, and started the painstaking process of going through every. single. box/tub/bag and making decisions for their contents.  It was not easy.  Not gonna lie.  Three to four hours in, I was sitting zombie-like in a chair and Anton was pouring through college papers and old bills.  Yes, old bills.  Don’t even ask.  We didn’t even know it was up there.  This is the whole point of the cleaning.  We threw away two large black garbage bags of papers/junk/etc., started a great “garage sale” pile, and were able to re-pack in a safer and more efficient way only those things that we truly felt our kids might one day like to have.  Despite being tired, overwhelmed, and even pooped on the whole project – we hung in there a good portion of the day, until at last dinner was calling and we decided to call it quits.  Still, it was fun to document our progress to share with all of you:

Make sure you have two cute helpers.  Makes everything easier.

Also helps to have irresistible little boy helpers who insist on full-regalia. 

Especially ones who LLLOOVVEE to go into the attic with Daddy…

   

It started to get a little bit overwhelming by the time the tub stack got taller than me.  Ugh!

It’s especially fun to find clothes you wore in the 80’s.  Go baby, rock it!

And your childhood jump-rope.  Especially when you’re still really good at it…

   

That’s me.  Buried in the rubble.  Do you feel my pain?

It was particularly nostalgic to find cards and crafts from our childhood. 

After approximately 150 cards, we had to draw the line and pick just a few to hold on to.

Sorting old paperwork, college papers, letters, and various forms of nostalgia.

We did get a little bleary eyed after several hours of this had passed.

All said and done, I was really proud of our effort.  Small confession to make: we pulled down roughly 9 tubs of children’s clothing from my kids.  Now people, I am loathe to confess it – but I felt so sad and pitiful.  I cried.  Just the thought of parting with their things…it did me in.  I know this makes me loony, but I cannot seem to help it.  I just boo-hoo’d like a big baby.  So now, all 9 of those tubs are in my entry-way and I am committed to sorting through them and deciding what to do.  No promises, but I’m going to attempt…well, something.  I don’t even know what yet.  Ahem.  No promises.

Meanwhile, HE IS RISEN!  {this is the great part where you say “He is Risen Indeed!”}.  We had a wonderful Easter Sunday  celebrating Christ’s Life, Death, and Resurrection!!  Quint has so many questions, and we are BLESSED to see his interest in faith blossoming.  We are humbled by his innocent curiosity in his Maker.  What a privilege for us to see him growing in this way.

Saturday night we let the kids dye their eggs for the first time evah’.  I’m slow, what can I say?

   

Sunday morning we made it to the Easter Sunrise Service, followed by an Egg Hunt, breakfast, and then two services (I sing in the choir).  After which I am proud to say that we rushed home, ate some delish egg-salad sammies, and put ourselves promptly to bed for two hours of nap-heaven. 

After which, the kids got their baskets from us! BIG hit. They were so happy with their goodies. 

Oh, wait!  One more hilarious find this weekend that I just have to share with you!  Going through all those childhood papers and schoolwork, etc. we came across a letter Anton had written to his parents in 1980.  I think it’s fairly safe to say that Anton’s political persuasion was set by age nine…



**Translation: “Dear Mom & Dad - Thanks for the Millennium Falcon and also for my other presents. And one more thing, thanks for voting for Regan! And thank you for telling me that I had a pajamaparty friday night. Love, Tony” **

30 Days of Spring Cleaning–Week 1

Well, as you know by now, we’re cleaning up our mess this month.  And if you need a re-cap of the Challenge, the rules, and what you need to get accomplished – READ THIS POST.  I’d love to have you join in – as this one is going to leave a lot of us feeling much better about our living space!

Sooooooo, remember when I told you that we were going to tackle the attic/garage combo?  Yeah. 

So I just wanted to take a moment and show you exactly what that means for us:

The garage has a lot of cluttered up spaces.  Case in point:

What is that?  Is that a package of Fed-Ex boxes, a used up container of cooking oil, glow sticks, and bug spray?  Why, yes!  Yes it is. 

So let’s talk attic:  and let’s just be honest shall we?  The attic is basically the exact size as the home beneath it.  And we have taken 8+ years to fill it with all sorts of ridiculous things.  The worst part of this, is that we have never taken any interest in organizing what we put up there.  Not really.  More or less a “just put it up there” kind of game.  So we have long rows of boxes and tubs of (whoknowswhat) and that’s so daunting.  What you see below is just an opening view of the madness.  You can’t even see behind those tubs – but I can tell you now, there are more.  Many, many more.  And see that red tub in the background?  That’s because all along the left side of this picture (which you can’t see) is a whole wall of more madness.  Tubs, boxes, luggage, large trash bags full of stuff, etc.  Oh it’s bad.  So bad.

Oh, and when you get up close and personal in the attic, you can see that all that random stuff is piled like this. 

Let’s see: cat carrier, Karpak Car topper, IRS paperwork, tent.  You know.  With all kinds of rhyme and reason and thought put into it.

I’m really anxious to see what happens when we start the project this weekend.  It’s going to come to pulling sections of the attic items down, sorting through them completely, and re-organizing the whole space.  We have to work quickly as well, because we’re losing a weekend this month to prior commitments.  I would love to see what you’re up against and how you plan to attack it!  Pictures?  Let us all know so we can follow along!